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Rings For A Life Time

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There we both stand with rings in our hands waiting in that stage. Hey, smart reader, we are talking about ENGAGEMENT . A small shock just passed through my spine when my dad called me during my office hours and told so casually " You are getting engaged this Sunday!!!! "I was like WHAT?! After our first step " Pennukanal " which I have already mentioned in my last blog, we now reach to officially announce the relation. If this was in some European country it will be like the man you loved will be in his knees with a ring asking those golden words. WILL YOU MARRY ME ? Oooh! How romantic. Right? Some people get lucky enough here also. Some people get their proposal during college days or in their office. They may have a similar kind of experience to share. Here I discuss the normal case. Where our parents decide if you two get married or not. Then comes your opinion. So, after all these hungama and great search there you b...

Rings For A Life Time

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There we both stand with rings in our hands waiting in that stage. Hey, smart reader, we are talking about ENGAGEMENT . A small shock just passed through my spine when my dad called me during my office hours and told so casually " You are getting engaged this Sunday!!!! "I was like WHAT?! After our first step " Pennukanal " which I have already mentioned in my last blog, we now reach to officially announce the relation. If this was in some European country it will be like the man you loved will be in his knees with a ring asking those golden words. WILL YOU MARRY ME ? Oooh! How romantic. Right? Some people get lucky enough here also. Some people get their proposal during college days or in their office. They may have a similar kind of experience to share. Here I discuss the normal case. Where our parents decide if you two get married or not. Then comes your opinion. So, after all these hungama and great search there you b...

The Great Groom Search

Pennukanal aka Finding Life Partner Marriage is more between two families and two cultures. I have heard this saying long back. This is something true guys. So after a certain age, you will face all these questions in life as " when will be your marriage? " and " When can we expect a sadhya ? "  So, When you and your family decides yes, we are ready for this you will clearly have to start seeking a better half for you. You will move with  Matrimony portals Brokers Known person to your relatives.  On the earlier stages we will behave as critics. And why not?  You are officially allowed to check out a boy's details and select him!! That too with the permission of your parents!!!  Well, That is still a big deal for many of us. I know there is a lot of others who are escaping from this as they have already found their partner they can skip this step. But they too will need to meet...

Malayali New Brides-HeadsUp

Kerla Bride Things to Keep In Mind Things to keep in mind for your Big Day Changes that will come with this Big Step. Marriage is always big for all families. Parents are in joy for making their son/daughter's Big Day to be the best. Friends and relatives will be busy with the fun and shooopping. The major things before marriage which are quite common in Kerala Hindu Bride. I would like to give a small heads up about them. Yeah, you guessed it. Even I have passed that stage. :) So as you know the over all steps for kerala hindu marriage is  Pennukanal chadangu Engagement on both sides/Orapikkal Pudava Chadangu  Marriage Amount of energy and hard work for these are beyond limits. I have checked several site for a solution. But I can only find some for Non-Indian brides. Yes,I do get lucky enough to find some sites and checklist for non-Indian brides. So i thought of making something close to those. This will be a series of writings. H...